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Couples Therapy

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Couples Intensives

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Individual Therapy

Relate with this?

Feel stuck in a relationship that isn’t working?

Feel exhausted arguing too much—including the small stuff? Worried about a blowup happening at any moment? Sick to your stomach with so much tension & anxiety? Acting in ways you aren’t proud of—but can’t help yourself?  Or, no more sex, no more sharing—no more love?

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Quick question

Why not make it great?

You’re already invested. Already have history. And already miserable? Let’s fix that—with lots of better & plenty of more

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Better communication

Talk openly without you or your partner getting defensive

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Better skills

More hope knowing what to do & how to talk when things get dicey

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More confidence

Feel at peace with your choice—whether to stay or leave

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More trust

Learn to manage your partner & yourself—during worst-of-times

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More intimacy

Have fun, loving, frequent, playful, steamy, connected, great sex

Listen better • Argue less • Love more • Increase fun • Handle tough times • Be a solid team together

I have been a client of Gretchen's since 2016 after the traumatic deaths of my mother & brother which left me suffering from a severe case of PTSD. Gretchen's patient and compassionate care saved my life. Her treatment using EMDR and kind and caring talk therapy changed my life. I'm so grateful to her. Best therapist I've ever experienced. I highly recommend her.

Michael W.

Gretchen was so understanding of our personal challenges after 10 years of marriage. She offered small shifts and personal reflection that has brought stability and joy back into our relationship. She’s great, great, great! No need to be of the same faith, open to all types of relationships.

Cindy P.

Gretchen with OC Couples Center is amazing! She helped me navigate a very difficult time in my life while also respecting some sensitive boundaries. I loved working with Gretchen!

Wendy R.

Thank you, Gretchen, for today's session. Holding the space for me to express myself meant a lot. Today was the first time I ever told my husband what I dislike about something he gives me. I have always been extra welcoming of all his efforts, but I felt strong enough to share that it wasn't necessarily my cup of tea. That was huge for me. My intent is always to honor and lovingly accept his efforts. And, it was important to let him know—that he doesn't know me that well. Thank you so much!

A.N.

​​Hi I just wanted to tell you that I am thankful for you in my life. I feel like I’ve made more progress in the few weeks that we’ve been meeting than in years of therapy. So, thank you!

Anneke M.

For individuals

Suffering from trauma, anxiety or depression?

Do you have negative thoughts swirling around? Worried or hopeless about your future? Is substance abuse a problem? I can help. See my Individual Therapy service—whether for yourself or someone you love.

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Learn to spot things quickly—to fix things quickly.

Not everything that is hard—has to be complex. Learn how to keep drama small, not big.

STEP 1

Schedule a free call

Meet to learn more ∙ Learn your situation ∙ Determine if we’re a match

STEP 2

Work together

Assess your relationship ∙ Create a relationship plan ∙ Meet to do the exercises together

STEP 3

Get back to love

Call on new skills ∙ Keep small things from becoming big ones ∙ Feel like you got this—together

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If you don't make an assertive decision the universe will make it for you.

And it won't be the one you want.

There's no shame in getting help.

Why us?

Keep love in—not out of the relationship.

20+ years helping couples—I can help you

100s of grateful customers

Every situation is unique—yet I’ve seen em all

Right balance of straight talk, humor & experience

A go to couples-therapists for other therapists

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Work together? Or not?

Work through heated talks faster
Feel more relaxed, energized & confident
Proactively address sensitive topics
Enjoy moments without worry of blowups
Know if I should stay or go
Keep living years in conflict
Keep feeling lonely & angry
Keep arguing needlessly
Keep avoiding what should be addressed
Keep feeling unfulfilled & resentful
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$180/yr
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The 5 mistakes people make when doing couples therapy

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Why gamble with your relationship?

“I’m tired of being in an unhealthy relationship. Exhausted by the bad vibes. And sad it’s gotten this bad over the years. I want this to work. I want to live & love my partner all over again. And be a great role model for our kids.”

Well said you. That’s what we’ll make happen working together.

Too many couples avoid problems that break up marriages & relationships. I provide therapy sessions & workshops to make relationships fun healthy & loving again.